The Big Hello Thread

0bleak

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problem is, my girlfriend and i are really just interested in a ménage à trois
i'm a little jealous of her because i think she's prettier than i am
with that in mind, what kind of lover would he be?
would he split his attention fairly equally?

depending on how he answers my concern, i'll tell him about my friend's concern
 

0bleak

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I dislike the term incel because it seems to me, even if you're an ultrachad, if you're young man (let's say under 40) with a normal hormonal range, you're involuntarily celibate practically the minute you're no longer having sex.
 
I guess THIS is where I should have put my first post.
Greetings all!
New member here.

I had never heard the term incel until fairly recently I guess. I might have come across it in Angela Nagles ‘Kill all Normies’ which I read shortly after it came out. My nephew who is now in his early 20’s and he’s a pretty brilliant young man with a steady gf and is gifted in an artistic medium,…anyway, a couple/few years ago my sister (his mom) had told me he was obsessed/anxiety ridden @being (or the prospect of being more accurately) an incel.
I’ve been married since 2007 & I’m sure I’m not the only person who has been involuntarily celibate for protracted periods of the time. The reasons are legion. Work schedules, raising a child, long stretches of being more of a roommate than a romantic partner. The most blaring reasons almost certainly obvious to siblings & friends, which I am completely oblivious and/or in denial @.

Anywho, seeing ‘Adolescence’ was a psychic sucker punch as, it clued me into the challenges ‘kids’ are facing/dealing with that is literally in front of my face but are blended into the spectacle in such a way that is incomprehensible to me. The only comparison I can make (weak as it may sound) is Graffiti in the 1980’s. To my parents & even elder siblings it was all so much nonsense. I, on the other hand was privy to, as well as being involved in it as a powerful medium of communication,…

Please excuse the rant. I am grateful for this place to learn, think, exchange ideas & hopefully stave off looming insanity.
 
Yes. Grew up youngest of six. My parents, really just mom loved music and was always singing lol. Mostly Irish trad oldies but loved Liza minelli.
There was 16 years between the eldest and myself so at one time during my very young life everything from Motown-Beatles/Stones-Grateful Dead/Hot Tuna were all influences in different ways. I came of age, meaning. Developing my own taste in the early eighties and was blown away by the burgeoning NYHC scene. Bad Brains & Reagan Youth were big favs. Love the Clash, Ramones, SLF & oddly enough Frank Zappa. Seen most live at least once (some many times minus the Beatles obs).
In the car these days if I’m not listening to WBAI radio, I find myself listening to a lot of old school outlaw country (Willie Nelson & the like).
I would classify myself as hopelessly out of touch with most stuff not produced recorded decades ago. In Fishers book ‘Ghosts of my Life’ I was completely in the dark @ a lot of his musical references (Jungle? Being one of a few). I was around & exposed to early hip-hop just from running with a Graf crew but didn’t appreciate the quality until hearing hearing what would follow (more old man talk).
It was actually a Deadhead who enlightened me as to why my taste musically to span the GD, Punk/HC, & Zappa. He pointed out to me that all three artists/forms were very intimate.
That made a ton of sense to me. Seeing Floyd, the Stones and ‘Supergroups’ like that in arena’s were almost always anticlimactic.

Definitely open to suggestions and hearing you & others musical leanings.
 
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