In my experience they are much better in bed than men are, even though if I had to choose I would probably say I'd prefer a guy based on looks if he's good looking enough.
few women under the age of 30 are comfortable enough with themselves to allow themselves to have amazing sex. from my experience.
so looks are more important to you than feeling? would that be an inverted "male gaze"? isn't obsession with surface and appearances quintessentially male and chauvinist? maybe not. i don't know what I'm talking about I'm drunk.